Without awkward therapy sessions, sacrificing your parenting standards, or pretending everything's fine when it isn't. This guide is your relationship-saving roadmap for exhausted parents who want more than just to "co-parent" - you want to feel like a couple again.


JESSICA M
Mum of 1, Married 4 years
I didn't realise how far apart we'd grown until we felt more like flatmates than a couple. I was exhausted, resentful, and honestly thought we were drifting for good. This guide changed everything. It was honest, doable, and didn't make me feel like a failure. Within days we were actually talking again. It gave me hope when I'd nearly run out.
Every year, millions of couples go from lovers to co-managers of a household - without ever seeing it coming.
Between sleep deprivation, financial stress, and never-ending childcare, the romance quietly fades. Communication becomes logistics. Affection gets replaced with resentment. And by year five, nearly half of those couples are either emotionally disconnected or split up entirely.
This guide offers another path. Based on 40+ studies, it reveals how real couples overcome the silent drift that parenting creates without awkward therapy sessions, forced date nights, or picture-perfect expectations.
It's time to go from disconnected co-parents to a united team again - with simple daily shifts designed for real life, not instagram.


67% of couples report a steep decline in relationship satisfaction after having kids - most within the first year. This guide gives you the strategies that help the other 33% stay connected, even through the chaos.

The most resilient couples aren't "lucky" they use techniques that most parents don't even know exist. This guide gives you the access to the same evidence-based habits and rituals backed by 40+ relationship studies.

Parents lose over 109 minutes of sleep every night in the first year - and most of their energy goes to survival, not connection, We'll show you how to rebuild your bond in small ways that don't drain the little life you have left.

Think rebuilding your relationship takes house you don't have? Think again. These connection tools take under 5 minutes a day and still create massive change - without the pressure of forced date nights or cringe advice.
Get instant access to 20 proven tools to rebuild your bond - no scrolling, no fluff, just real results.

Why the first year after baby hits harder than anyone admits - and how to stop the silent drift before it becomes distance.
Part 1: Spot the silent disconnect (10 min)
Part 2: The real reasons you're fighting (12 min)
Part 3: How to stay close without more time (9 min)
Bonus: FaThe 6-month relationship cliff & how to avoid it

Turn explosive fights and quiet resentment into teamwork - even when you totally disagree.
Part 1: Why 92% of couples fight more after baby (8 min)
Part 2: Conflict styles & how to work with yours (14 min)
Part 3: 3 short phrases that de-escalate fast (6 min)
Bonus: Conflict style quiz + repair scripts


How to stop the invisible weight of "remembering everything" from destroying your connection.
Part 1: What the mental load really looks like (10 min)
Part 2: Why scorekeeping fails every time (11 min)
Part 3: The role rest that works (10 min)
Bonus: "Default parent" rebalance conversation guide

You don't need more time. You need better moments. Here's how to create emotional intimacy even in chaos.
Part 1: The science of micro-connection (7 min)
Part 2: 5 daily habits that spark closeness (8 min)
Part 3: The 2-minute evening ritual that sticks (6 min)
Bonus: 7-Day reconnection challenge calendar


Build physical closeness in a way that feels safe, natural and actually wanted - for both of you.
Part 1: Why intimacy drops (and that's okay) (10 min)
Part 2: Physical touch that doesn't feel transactional (9 min)
Part 3: The "desire bridge" technique (9 min)

Part 1: You're not just "mum and dad" This chapter helps you reclaim the parts of yourself that got lost along the way - and reconnect as whole people.
Part 2: Why 79% of parents feel invisble (9 min)
Part 3: How to reclaim who you were (without guilt) (12 min)
Part 4: How to be seen by your partner again (9 min)
...and that's just the beginning. Unlock 14 more chapters with practical tools, emotional resets, and real-life strategies to keep your relationship strong - through every stage of parenthood.

Alongside your guide, you'll receive powerful bonus tools designed to make reconnecting with your partner even easier - no pressure, no fluff, just real support for real parents. These extras are gentle, practical, and created to help you feel closer again, even in the middle of chaos.

BONUS 1: The Emotional Reset Toolkit
Quick reflection prompts and mindset shifts to help you and your partner feel seen again, especially when communication feels stuck.
BONUS 2: The Invisible Load Rebalance Sheet
A done-for-you worksheet that helps couples divide responsibilities fairly - without arguments, scorekeeping or guilt.
BONUS 3: The 30-Second Connection Habit List
Tiny, research-backed moments of closeness you can sprinkle into your day (even if you're running on fumes).
BONUS 4: 4-Week Reconnection Challenge Calendar
A gentle, no pressure plan to rebuild your bond - just one tiny step at a time.
BONUS 5: The Touch Map
A simple guide to rebuilding physical closeness that feels safe, playful and pressure-free for both of you.
…and that’s just the beginning. You’ll also unlock 5 more gentle, research-backed bonus tools to support your relationship designed specifically for time-starved, overwhelmed parents.

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Small Business Owner

"We were constantly arguing about the little things, and I started thinking maybe this was just our new normal. This guide helped me understand what was really happening, and how to shift it. It was honestly a relief to feel seen."

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Dad of 2, Together 10 Years

"I didn't expect much from a pdf, but this hit home. The section on invisible mental load opened my eyes big time. It's helped us talk better, argue less, and feel like we're on the same team again."

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Parents of Twins

"Everything became about nappies, bottles, and who was more tired. We lost "us". This guide gave us small ways to reconnect, even if it was just one question before bed. It brought back a softness we'd missed."

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Mum of Three, married 12 Years

"We'd been sleeping walking through our marriage for months. I cried reading the first few pages because it finally described exactly how I felt. The tools inside helped us turn toward each other again, even on our hardest days."
Nope. While the first year is the most critical, the tools in this guide apply to couples with kids of all ages, especially in those first 5 years of parenting, when most relationships start to drift. Whether you're 6 months in or 5 years deeps, this guide can help you reconnect.
Most advice online is vague ("just communicate!") or unrealistic ("have weekly date nights!"). This guide is different - it's built on 40+ psychological studies and gives you practical, time efficient strategies that actually work for sleep-deprived, busy parents.
Not at all! These strategies work even if only one person starts making small changes. Many couples see a shift simply by one partner applying the tools - though you're welcome to share it together.
That's exactly who this was made for. You don't need a perfect relationship or loads of free time. This guide is gentle, honest, and designed to help you take small, meaningful steps forward, without pressure or guilt.
Both. While some examples are written from a mum's perspective, the strategies are backed by universal research and work for anyone feeling disconnected, mums, dads, or any co-parenting partner.
Some couples notice a shift after just the first chapter. Because the tools are practical and easy to apply, many people feel more connected within days - even just by changing how they talk, touch, or share the load.
Because this is a digital product with instant access, we can't offer refunds - but we've designed this guide to be genuinely valuable from the very first page. It's packed with real research, practical tools, and no-fluff advice to help you see results quickly - even if you're completely overwhelmed right now.

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Disclaimer:
This guide is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional therapy, counselling, or mental health advice. The content is based on research and lived experiences, and aims to provide general guidance for navigating common relationship challenges after becoming parents. Every relationship is unique, and outcome may vary. if you are experiencing significant emotional distress, relationship breakdown, or mental health concerns, we encourage you to seek support from a qualified professional. The creators and distributors of this guide are not reasonable for any outcomes resulting from the use or misuse of its contents.